The Best Resources to Learn About BDSM in 2023
The most comprehensive list of fetish, BDSM, and kink resources. Everything from online blogs and courses, including the greatest books about BDSM and shibari. The list is updated regularly so that all the links are up to date.
Websites & Blogs
- Shibari Study – online shibari tutorials.
- TheDuchy – one of the oldest blogs to learn about rope bondage.
- Submissive Feminist – a blog about kink and sex toy reviews.
- Loving BDSM – a BDSM podcast and blog.
- Rope Study – online and in-person bondage courses.
- Kink Academy – over 2000 sex-ed videos.
- Twisted Monk – a bondage rope manufacturer since 2004.
- SheVibe (Intro to Impact Play) – a sex toy retailer.
- BDSM checklist (archive) – a fetish checklist.
YouTube
- WattsTheSafeword – 300k+ subscribers.
- Evie Lupine – 230k+ subscribers.
- Morgan Thorne – 70k+ subscribers.
Social Networks
- FetLife – the biggest social network for the BDSM and kink community.
- Reddit r/bdsm – the biggest Reddit BDSM community.
- Reddit r/bdsmfaq – FAQ for r/bdsm.
Books
- The New Topping Book by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton.
- The New Bottoming Book by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton.
- Two Knotty Boys Showing You The Ropes by Dan and J. D.
- Douglas Kent's Complete Shibari by Douglas Kent.
- Shibari You Can Use by Lee Harrington.
- Bondage for Sex by Chanta Rose.
- The Little Guide to Getting Tied Up by Evie Vane.
- Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage by Midori.
- Tying and Flying: Bondage for self-suspension by Shay Tiziano.
